Part of going to school is taking tests, and you may be one of many students that experience intense test anxiety. This performance anxiety comes primarily from linking our self worth to our grades. We might worry about what our family members and friends will think of us if we do poorly.
Some students breeze into class, seem to take exams without fear, and often they are the students who earn consistently good grades. These people can be very annoying because they do easily what you struggle with. You think maybe they are smarter than you are.
It is possible a few are smarter, but many of them are in your ballpark, or not as smart. The great test-takers are different because they have not acquired the habit of anxiety while taking tests. There is nothing wrong with you. Even exam aces have areas of anxiety in their life; it just doesn’t show up at test time.
Test tension can also come from working against the clock, fearing you will not finish the test. Teachers posting grades next to names can be anxiety-provoking, also being in a class that is beyond your current ability.
Maybe you take exams quickly so you can flee the situation. Maybe you answer in haste so you’re not the last student to finish. Either way, you are shortchanging yourself.
It is not true that smart people always finish tests first, or early. Some excellent test takers use the entire allotted test time to make sure they’ve done their best, while others may work quickly and not stay to review their answers. The point is, how long you work on an exam has nothing to do with your potential or intelligence.
To relieve your anxiety, learn a relaxation technique that you are comfortable using. It could be a deep breathing exercise, muscle relaxation, or mindfulness meditation. What matters is that it helps you. If your anxiety is primarily something felt in your body, muscle relaxation or deep breathing are good choices. If the anxiety seems largely in your head, some type of meditation may help the most.
Because our feelings follow our thoughts, thinking negatively of yourself can cause anxiety. Although it may seem forced, try exchanging your negative thoughts for more positive ones. For example, if you usually think, “No matter how hard I study, I never do well on tests,” try something like, “I studied hard for this test and I will do my best.”
Here are a few more tips are given by one of those annoying people that take tests well:
Now, forget about the test; put it out of your mind until the grades are posted.
If your test anxiety is unmanageable, talk to a school counselor, or consider seeing a therapist.
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